Squirting doesn't always happen naturally. Learning how to squirt or make someone else squirt can make your favourite porn fantasy come true.
Understanding anatomy is incredibly important to accomplish squirting.
The clitoris and the G spot are super sensitive and will be the key components to achieve squirting. Take your time stimulating both and learning what the body reacts to. Some people may squirt easier than others and that's okay!
Each person is different in what they find pleasurable. It takes a lot of exploring and patience.
The G-Spot:
The G-spot is a bundle of nerves connected to the muscles that are used to give birth (so when stimulated it creates a super intense feeling.) Those muscles also help build up fluid in the urethra (creating the "squirt.") A G-spot orgasm is so intense it is felt through the whole body. You can find the G-spot about 2 inches deep and at the front of the vagina. For a visual estimate, it is about 2 inches below the bellybutton! This spot may feel bumpy compared to ribbed like the rest of the vagina, but when stimulated it turns smooth. This spot enjoys pressure more than jabbing. But be careful of overstimulation because the nerves can go numb.
Tip: Whatever is being used for internal stimulation (vibrator,
penis, etc..) Instead of just thrusting it in and out, try to rhythmically move it in a more circular motion with each stroke to help keep rhythm and induce more pressure.
If you are using a toy or want to use a toy in the future, consider getting one with a slightly bulbous "head" that is meant to help stimulate the G-spot more! If you just use fingers try to do a "come hither" motion.
G-spot orgasms usually make women feel like they have to pee. This feeling will continue to grow more and more intense. You have to keep going and push through that feeling. When the muscles retract the squirt will be pushed out and create the desired mess!
MYTH: Squirting is just pee.
DEBUNKED: Though there may be leftover urine in the urethra that is forced out, "squirt" is the liquid that builds up from the birthing muscles being active.
The Clitoris:
After reading all about the G-spot you may wonder how the clit helps in all of this. The clit is part of the same nerve bundle that is connected to those birthing muscles. The clit may be a good place to start on this journey because these orgasms are usually much more achievable when done correctly. Multiple orgasms help to make all these nerves super sensitive and susceptible to push to the point of squirting.
Tip: If it doesn't happen right away don't be discouraged! It takes a lot of getting to know the body and practicing. And once you've done it once, muscle memory will help kick in a little bit and make it easier to squirt each time. Oh, and remember to stay hydrated!
The Steps:
Foreplay. Anything! Anything to get the mood going is a plus. The wetter the better. Don't be afraid to grab some lube for extra assistance. Using lube will make everything a little bit easier by adding to the wetness, reducing friction, and giving the G-spot a slight layer of protection to help those nerves from going numb.
Fingering. Starting with fingering can help pinpoint exactly where that G-spot is and prepare it for more action. Remember that it responds best to repetition and pressure. The "come hither" motion should do all the work for you.
Orgasm. Like mentioned before, it is easiest to start with clitoral orgasms and keep going from there. With each orgasm comes more sensitivity and that will make the squirt much more achievable.
Pulling out the internal stimulant (penis, vibrator, etc) at the right moment is what will make that messy squirt scene you dream of. Squirting happens because of the sudden release of the muscles. Gushing on the other hand is still quite wet and messy but will happen when you keep going past the point of squirt. The muscles won't be able to fully retract to spray the liquid so instead it gushes out slower than the release of the squirt.
MYTH: Squirting means having a super intense orgasm.
DEBUNKED: Yes squirting can come along with a very intense orgasm but they do not always go hand in hand. Someone can have a strong orgasm without squirting or squirt without an orgasm due to muscle memory. Orgasms definitely help though!
POSITIONS:
Any position can work if you do everything correctly but shallow positions will give you a little extra assistance. These will help hit the G-spot with every thrust.
Laying on back with hips elevated slightly. A pillow works great as a comfortable positional aid. Put it under the hips and it will keep them propped up. This will open up the hips and expose the G-spot to regular thrusting.
Laying on back with legs up by the head. This will drop the G-spot lower and allow it to be stimulated more rigorously.
Laying on stomach with one leg straight back and the other bent to the side. This position doesn't allow for very deep penetration so the G-spot should be more susceptible.
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